tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post4510524088812484491..comments2024-03-27T03:11:25.622-04:00Comments on The Philosophy of KLo: Honoring a Marriage That is OverAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13955854427063032485noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-20106435560864119852011-08-25T08:48:29.538-04:002011-08-25T08:48:29.538-04:00Hello,
Found you via Mrs4444's blog. The titl...Hello,<br /><br />Found you via Mrs4444's blog. The title drew me in and I'm glad I stopped by. It's awesome that you used kind words in the description of the past and current aspects of your ex's character, speaks well of you both and your former relationship.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing.D.S. Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04044779501609588118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-10221759955904503842011-08-07T22:55:18.280-04:002011-08-07T22:55:18.280-04:00Very good post. There's a line in a song that...Very good post. There's a line in a song thats always resonated with me re: my ex- "he's the one who will be missing you, and you'll only miss the man that you wanted him to be."Cyndy Bushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12617354883122757511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-59569073321934624022011-08-07T21:55:48.680-04:002011-08-07T21:55:48.680-04:00I've never read a post like this, and I'm ...I've never read a post like this, and I'm impressed. I think it's god that you haven't forgotten his best self. I hope that some day, he heals and returns.Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-73643093025529425522011-08-06T13:21:36.263-04:002011-08-06T13:21:36.263-04:00Blessings on you to be able to attribute so much o...Blessings on you to be able to attribute so much of the past good to him. It is hard when you can't respect the man he has become, but it was good of you to pay tribute to the marriage of the past. Much happiness to you in your future!Ann in the UPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05856961167336069959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-69299463126750111792011-08-05T10:21:20.891-04:002011-08-05T10:21:20.891-04:00Treasure what you can. I have some happy memories...Treasure what you can. I have some happy memories of my marriage and I cannot bring myself to regret getting married, not just because of the boys. I learnt another language and got to see Germany through the eyes of Germans.<br /><br />I hope you can find someone whose worthy of you. You have more strength and honesty than a lot of people.<br /><br />May eveyone learn to honour what is good as you're doing today. If more poeple did, fewer marriages would dissolve and more friendships would survive.Martin Willoughbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05605554706836638988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-57569333095467824582011-08-05T09:31:05.942-04:002011-08-05T09:31:05.942-04:00It is amazing the changes the years bring in a mar...It is amazing the changes the years bring in a marriage. Some good and some not so good. We have definitely had some hardship over the past ten but in an effort to keep our kids happy we always straightened out and dealt with the situation.SBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00706798245902347497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-7775869324670093162011-08-04T22:50:26.214-04:002011-08-04T22:50:26.214-04:00yes you do...honor him for the man he was...as you...yes you do...honor him for the man he was...as you did...this is so sad...i am sorry...and as happy as we are we have had our lumpsalong the way and challenges...remind your littleof the man he once was as well...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-90974191851846694102011-08-04T18:03:47.125-04:002011-08-04T18:03:47.125-04:00Having been through a painful divorce I can relate...Having been through a painful divorce I can relate to this post! I am so glad that you still believe in marraige and can honor the good!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17680221201312100448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-83245735715842267142011-08-04T17:49:59.248-04:002011-08-04T17:49:59.248-04:00I love it that people still believe in marriage, a...I love it that people still believe in marriage, and you obviously do.<br />Jane xJane and Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08102086552682194819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-88977864832613838472011-08-04T16:30:31.645-04:002011-08-04T16:30:31.645-04:00"Divorces are final long before they go to co..."Divorces are final long before they go to court." - from the book "THINK" by Dr. Robert Anthony.<br /><br />Too many people get mired in griping over the bad parts, wallowing in self-pity, and stay bitter over it for years before moving on.<br /><br />I think it's nice that you can still be proud of the good parts of your marriage, even after it went south. (I would say I'm proud of you, but that just comes off as condescending - LOL!)Bubbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16927345716112968689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-39660805051234497102011-08-04T16:09:01.196-04:002011-08-04T16:09:01.196-04:00I respect your ability to be so open with your own...I respect your ability to be so open with your own feelings as to post them. The things you said about dealing with the death of a loved one are so true. I miss my brother every day.Shockgrubzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00268844926880083612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-29477912808503828992011-08-04T15:25:56.468-04:002011-08-04T15:25:56.468-04:00That was really beautiful, and says so much about ...That was really beautiful, and says so much about you. It's so hard to remember the good, when there has been so much bad. Kudos.Cazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12123782302108370253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-69452673189478914112011-08-04T15:07:56.714-04:002011-08-04T15:07:56.714-04:00@B: Thank you very much ... it took me a long time...@B: Thank you very much ... it took me a long time, but I've learned over the course of my life that you've got to find the good wherever it might be, or you'll just go completely crazy. <3<br /><br />@Jabblog: Thanks :-) Your compliments always mean a lot as I hold you in the highest regard!<br /><br />@Loralie: Thank you :-) There is good and bad in everything, and being able to put both into perspective allows you to learn and grow as a person. There is too much hate in the world already ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13955854427063032485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-34445374579667047962011-08-04T14:58:24.251-04:002011-08-04T14:58:24.251-04:00A bitter-sweet mixture of memories, and an amazing...A bitter-sweet mixture of memories, and an amazing tribute. I toast to the marriage that was, and commend you for being able to commemorate the good inspite of the bad <3Loralie Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07134452749240292803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-43513602369671346452011-08-04T14:12:49.935-04:002011-08-04T14:12:49.935-04:00An honest and revealing post - well done.An honest and revealing post - well done.jabbloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12176958811589489979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3196908370614674789.post-87471969089040533762011-08-04T14:01:38.018-04:002011-08-04T14:01:38.018-04:00<3 to you...today and always. You've seen t...<3 to you...today and always. You've seen the good that came from the relationship, and that is not always easy. Stay strong.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00255962366132101271noreply@blogger.com